We go through life full of questions, but 'why' can be the hardest to answer.
Is there a COGENT REASON for being in that relationship? Or it's basically because of your emotions alone? To feel among? Because, you're getting older? Family, Peer or Societal pressures? Oh! It's because he/she claimed they saw something spritually without you seeing anything?😁
I've come to a realization from personal experience and Relationship Counselling that the reason it's easy to pull out from a relationship/marriage during the days of adversity is due to lack of a "COGENT WHY."
Every relationship/marriage has its period of storm. It takes BEYOND EMOTIONS to stay together during this period.
Singles, please reflect on this. Ensure there's a WHY beyond emotions before saying, “YES, I DO” to save yourself from unnecessary heartbreaks.
And, the best WHY comes from a place of personal conviction. When you're sure God is leading you to a person, there's a CONFIDENCE beyond the ordinary. Because, with Jesus in your boat. You're certain of not sinking!
P.S: This is not to encourage staying in a relationship/marriage where there's domestic abuse/violence. The best you can do for such a partner is to pray for them from afar and help them seek psychological help. And, be certain there's a genuine change before going back.
To your relationship success.