HE IS NOT DOING YOU A FAVOUR BY MARRYING YOU.
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DON'T BE! Just stay connected with me by reading through.
Yes! He isn't doing you a favour.
Definitely! She is not doing you a favour.
Stop allowing people treat you like trash because they make it seem like they're doing you a favour by getting married to you.
No! That's a BIG lie.
No one is doing anyone a favour. If there was nothing significant or valuable about you, he/she wouldn't have considered you.
They may not say it. But, they've noticed something SPECIAL and UNIQUE about you which you may be unaware of.
However, one of you may be coming with more values… but, that doesn't make the other person USELESS. No!
You are Valuable.
You are made for more.
You've got awesome qualities.
Don't think LESS of yourself.
He/She is not doing you a favour. Both of you are fulfilling God's mandate.
If he makes it look like he's doing you a favour… make him realise what he will miss if you refuse to marry him, and vice-versa.
This means; even if you are not that man or woman you desire to be yet. Keep working towards it. Don't just fold your hands doing nothing in your waiting season.
So, when the right partner comes, you won't be termed someone they're trying to consider or manage.
You are VALUABLE.
You are UNIQUE.
Never let anyone make you feel like a NON-ENTITY, because of marriage.
Both of you are doing yourselves a FAVOUR. And, fulfilling God's mandate. Never forget this.
To your relationship success.