1001 THINGS I WANT IN A MAN
... "I am waiting and looking for Mr. Right".
Aunty, don't just wait!
What value are you adding to yourself?
In areas you lack knowledge and are paramount to Your Becoming, what step(s) have you taken to get better.
Are you among those who wake everyday waiting for a man to turn the table around?
This is cool. Who no like better thing?😄
But, what are you also bringing to the table? Abi na Mr. Right go shoulder all the responsibility?
In the course of the lockdown, I got some certifications in areas I needed to grow and get better. I can't continue lying to myself.
You sabi your abilities. Stop deceiving yourself to have knowledge in certain areas when all you know is Basics.
Have you made efforts to gain more knowledge in that business you are into?
Beyond your degree(s), what other thing(s) can you confidently do?
How many books have you read this year?
Are you using the internet to your advantage?
Have you discovered your purpose and working on it?
Have you improved your culinary skills?
There's more to a phenomenal woman than Make ups and accessories. If you don't add values to yourself, it will be hard for anyone to treat you with Respect.
Don't be a woman, he can't confidently seek advise from and get reasonable solutions. Don't be the type who can't involve in intellectual discussions.
Stop complaining and Act!
Sister, don't just make a long list of what you want in a man. Ensure you make a list of what you can offer as a woman.
Be an Asset!
In your heart of hearts, if you can be honest with yourself, go through your criteria for Mr Right. If you were Him, will you marry the present YOU?
This also applies to MEN.
Be the kind of person you want to meet.👌