Not all "God's will" end up in MARRIAGE.
Yes! I know you prayed.
Oh! You dreamt.
The confirmation from the Word of God.
Confirmations from your Spiritual Leader(s).
Yet! You wondered why the relationship didn't lead to Marriage?
That you've prayed isn't enough.
He or she being God's will for you doesn't stop you from doing your part.
🌹Does your relationship lack GOOD & EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION? It can't stand the test of time. Both of you will end up assuming things, creating scenes in your head, misinterpreting each other. Still, you refused to discuss it. Instead, you seek third parties for advice, and they end up giving a wrong advice which destroyed your relationship.
🌹TRUST is lacking: A relationship built on lies can NEVER end well. In the long run, you both end up wasting each other's time, and start blaming God.
🌹Not willing to COMPROMISE: I've been there. I once had a partner that wanted everything done his way. He believes everything he does was right. Wanting to do things his own way every time. Even his parents couldn't correct him. Mr PERFECT. When he's guilty, he finds a way to place the blame on me. I knew getting married to him is a DEATH TRAP. “Mo ya look away” (I let it go).
🌹Treating your partner BADLY: That someone is God's will for you isn't a license to start treating them anyhow. If you don't know the VALUE of gold, it will be taken from you.
🌹Refusal to speak their LOVE LANGUAGE: We are wired differently. You can't keep showing love to your partner with the wrong language and expect to be appreciated. Learn to identify your partner's language. What Love means to You, may not necessarily mean love to them.
Relationship requires WORK. You don't fold your hands and expect things to happen right. You have to put in WORK. If you're not willing to COMPROMISE (not your Integrity o) or SACRIFICE, don't bother going into a relationship.
God won't allow His sons/daughters to be MISTREATED. If you keep treating that person the wrong way, God will take him/her from you and give someone who deserves him/her.
GOD'S WILL still require WORK. Do your part, God will never default in doing His.
To your relationship success.