The way you HANDLE your possessions DETERMINE how others will handle them.
Randy speaks harshly to his partner before friends, and families. But, feels bad when they treat her the same way.
If only he knew, he's a great factor to how people treat her?
Are you like Randy or even worse?
Do you shout at your partner at every instance?
Do you ridicule them publicly?
Are they treated like crap before friends and families?
Are they criticized instead of correcting them?
Do you operate a Master-to-slave kind of relationship?
The way you treat them will determine how others will treat them.
If you handle them with levity, don't expect others to handle them with care.
If you carry your partner with prestige and honour, everyone will have no choice, but to do the same.
When you treat your partner with respect, others are compelled to treat them right.
So, stop complaining, and feeling bad when people treat your partner harshly, you've got the power in your hands to change the narration.
Learn to treat your partner right, it speaks volumes.