LOVE cannot sustain a relationship where COMMUNICATION is lacking.
Assumptions and lack of communication are number one relationship killers.
It's likened to termites; it feeds on the relationship gradually until nothing is left.
'She doesn't post my pictures on Facebook, she might have secret lovers', 'He didn’t call me tonight, so obviously he is not interested'.
Assumptions equally leads to fear. You have dwelt so much on different things about your partner without even communicating it to him/her. Then, the devil begins to use those thoughts to have power over you or the friends you informed, begin to advice you wrongly.
Please, hear them out before making a conclusion. Rather than assume, please ask questions. Speak up. Clear the misconceptions. Things may not always be the way you envisaged.
Your partner can’t read your mind.(maybe sometimes, but definitely not all the time). If you don’t speak up when you’re upset, there is no way for them to apologize or change. Once you do mention your hurt feelings and your partner sincerely apologies, let it go. Don’t bring up past issues if they’re not relevant.
May we not lose amazing people all because of our thoughts pattern.
To your relationship success.