Feeling unhappy and depressed about your continued relationship failures? Have you sat to understand the WHY behind it? Or you still blame everyone including your “village people”? Understanding the WHY could be all you need to get married before the year ends.😊😁
In this 21st century, if you still can't hold an intellectual conversation of any sort with your friends, your colleagues, yourself, your partner and even via chats.
You do not need a relationship. Yeah! You need time for personal development.
You know WHY?
Gone is the era of “hmm”, “it is well,” “ehya”, “alright”, “okay.”
Aunty, you need to contribute in intellectual discussions.
Uncle, you can't continue dodging from meaningful conversations.
We are quick to say; If he can't take me the way I am, then he's not for me. If she can't accept me for whom I am, then she's a gold digger.
Aunty... can you accept a man that keeps mute during intellectual and meaningful conversations?
Uncle... will you be happy to introduce your partner to your friends when the only thing she is good at is being a slay queen?
Who will gladly accept a man that only contributes when discussions about women with big butts are mentioned?
A reasonable man won't marry a lady whose only desire is sleeping, looking glam, always attending every party, go shopping, without any dreams or ambitions.
A sensible lady can never be happy to be associated with a man whose only achievements are the number of ladies he has slept with, night clubs where he spends lavishly... no investment(s), no plans, nothing reasonable to lay claims to?
Oh! You feel attacked? I'm sorry. But, I desire the best for you.
Today is another opportunity to get better. Stop the pity party. Quit blaming your “village people.” Enough of “all men and women are bad.”
A lot of young people are doing great things in their generation. You and I shouldn't be exempted.
Now is the time to act!
There's more to a phenomenal personality than Makeups and accessories.
If you need to learn a skill. Please, learn.
If you need to get some certifications. Please, do.
If you need to stay committed to a course, and gain mastery of it. Do it.
Don't allow anyone to make you feel inferior. You are a person of value.
There's so much embedded in you. Move out of your comfort zone.
And, the secret is... No reasonable person rejects something of Value.
Now that you've known your WHY, get the solution.
Damilola Seyz Adeniji (SeyzINKspires)