Every man they say has his own destiny to fulfill, but is it really true that a man has no control over his own destiny? NO.
Destiny simply put is the end point the combination of choices takes you and by choices I mean your actions and inactions.
Choice simply put is your decision, that is what you choose to take and to leave when faced with situations that places before you options out of which you can pick just one and follow it through.
Destiny in itself ends with the word “TINY” and tiny in its literary context means something that can be lost easily if not given proper attention as a result of its size. This therefore means destiny in itself is a tiny element but the size and quality of the destiny you fulfill is greatly dependent on your DECISIONS. In the real sense therefore, it will be inappropriate to say some people have great destinies and others have small ones but rather some men made good and quality decisions while others made bad and terrible ones.
If destiny wasn’t a product of decisions then why will two people gain access to an information but one chooses to capitalize on the information while the other ignores it then five, ten years down the line, that single decision made one great and the other nothing to write home about or an average man?
Destiny if fully stretched gives birth to the word DESTINATION. The destination you arrive at is a product of the bus you boarded. You can’t take a bus heading to the West and end up in the East. Just as you can’t sleep in your room and wake up in the next compound.
Your destiny therefore is in the quality of YOUR decisions because even when life presents you with multiple chances to succeed, if you decide not to use any of those chances, you will still end up a failure.
My question for you therefore is, the direction you’re headed presently, is it leading to your desired destination? Because where it takes you is what the world will call your DESTINY.
Your destiny is in your decisions and your decisions are in your hands. Therefore your destiny is in your hands.