FRIEND
FRI-ENDA word commonly used by all. Who is he to you? Oh, he’s my friend. Who’s that lady? She’s my friend. What actually qualifies a person to be called your FRIEND?First, what does friend mean? The answer is simply embedded in the last three letters of the word “END”. A friend is one who will […]
FRI-END

A word commonly used by all. Who is he to you? Oh, he’s my friend. Who’s that lady? She’s my friend. What actually qualifies a person to be called your FRIEND?

First, what does friend mean? The answer is simply embedded in the last three letters of the word “END”. A friend is one who will most likely determine your end in whatever area that bond you guys together.

How do I mean? The person you call your friend in the area of finance will most likely influence your thinking culture as regards money and how it should be handled. For instance, if your friend or group of friends are those who believe they don’t need to make investments or have savings against the future and spends every penny on them today, the chances of you living that way are high.

If all those you call your friends have marital issues (broken homes, unhappy marriages,...), it will be very difficult for you to maintain a happy home.

For students, if your league of friends are those who aren’t serious about their studies and they just need a “Pass” in their courses, the chances of you having “As” are slim.

Someone there is saying, I’m fully in control of my life and my friends can in no way decide what I do. Okay, take a few minutes to check your friend list, friends I said not acquaintances... Did you notice you guys have one or more things in common? Look more closely, does it look like you guys have similar belief systems as regards life and the future? I’m sure your answer is most likely yes.

So what does this tells you? The person you call your friend is one who has similar ambitions as yours in a particular area of life or life as a whole. This is why you don’t call the mad man in your environment your friend. You can’t be aiming for an “A” list in finance and the category of those you discuss your financial plans with are those who’re satisfied with daily bread somewhere are level “D”. Either one of two things will happen, you either end up at their level or you decide their end by bringing them to your level. One side just must influence the other.

In conclusion, before using the word “FRIENDSHIP”, be sure everyone you have in that “SHIP” are headed in the same direction as you are or you’re headed in the same direction as they are. If not, it’s never too late to consciously restructure your end by changing your league of friends today. They have a great level of influence over what you read, what you hear, what you see, where you go and how you reason.

Someone said, if you’re hang with 9 broke friends you’re the 10th.

The General Manager doesn’t sit in the midst of Gate Managers to discuss his academic or financial ambitions. Not for pride, but as of now, they aren’t headed in the same direction.

“Choose your friends, don’t let them choose you”.

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